Taylor曾回憶道：
"How can somebody that seems so strong have such a horrible, horrible weakness? Something that is killing her."“
為什么一個看起來那么健康強壯的人會有這么可怕的弱點？這些東西在一點一點侵蝕她?！?。
她說"I always thought that one of the biggest overlooked problems American girls face is insecurity."
大概全美國的女生最大的被忽視的問題是缺乏安全感。
在后來的一個采訪里，小美女說道“那時候我突然意識到，那些你以為很堅強的人其實沒有那么堅強。那段時間很難挨，我寫下了這首歌，并且幫她一起度過了難關，她現在挺好的?！?
Taylor說：
"One of my best friends is absolutely beautiful. She goes to beauty pageants and wins everything.
我的一位朋友長得非常漂亮。她去參加那些選美比賽，總是能贏。
Girls want to be her and guys want to be with her.
女孩兒們都想成為她那樣的人，而男兒們都想和她在一起。
I wrote this song the day I found out about her eating disorder.
我寫這首歌是因為那天我發現她的飲食障礙。
It completely blew my mind, and this one was tough to write, because I wasn't just telling some sad story. This was real.
那使我非常震驚。這種題材很不好寫，因為我不想講悲傷的故事。但這事卻是事實。
This song is basically about the girls I know, and the difficult things I saw them go through.
這首歌就是根據我認識的這個女孩兒以及她所經歷的痛苦寫成的。
I've never seen this song as a lecture. It's really about how no matter what my friends go through, I'm always going to love them."
我從未把這首歌當成演講或什么，它僅僅是告訴大家，不管我的朋友們經歷了什么，我永遠愛他們?！?/div>